divorce — Shownotes — Terri Hanson Mead

Show Highlights

· Naama explains that Gen Z covers people born between 1997-2010/2012 but it’s not just the year they were born.

· Naama shares that Gen Z grew up after 9/11, in an era of war, during the financial crisis, and with technology

· Naama explains that Gen Xers grew up after Watergate, with high divorce rates for their parents, and grew up to be cynical; this influences the way Gen Xers parent their kids along with having access to technology and resources on parenting

· Naama said that the data shows that Gen Z is the largest generation in terms of numbers, is the most diverse, is shaping up to be the best educated, is very socially minded, and is less trusting of institutions

· Naama said that the data shows that Gen Z tends to stay at home more, gets into less trouble, starts having sex later, has fewer teen pregnancies, do less drugs and drink less, but they do feel lonelier and are more depressed.

· Terri asks Naama about Gen Z and the gender spectrum

· Naama shares what she and her team have learned about what girls are looking for and why they’ve create an app for them

· Terri asks Naama for ideas to get her second child to interact and socialize in real life with their friends

Terri’s Key Takeaway

Even though her second child isn’t getting out more to meet with their friends in real life, the interaction that they are having in chats, through Facetime and other means of communicating are just fine to build relationships and feel connected to others.

References in the Podcast

· Piloting Your Life: https://www.pilotingyourlife.com/

· Telle App: https://telleapp.com/

Contact

You can purchase Piloting Your Life (the book) on Amazon at http://bit.ly/PYL-Amazon, or you can go to https://www.pilotingyourlife.com/ to choose your preferred format and retailer and see other goodies.

Naama can be reached at naama@telleapp.com or through their website www.telleapp.com.

You can follow Terri on Twitter at @terrihansonmead or go to her website at www.terrihansonmead.com. Terri blogs a variety of topics on Medium at https://medium.com/terri-hanson-mead.

Terri would love to hear from you via email at PilotingYourLife@gmail.com.

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Show Highlights

· Erin provided her background and the trends she is seeing in divorce and how divorce has changed over the last 15 years

· Erin said that women want to feel alive and make deliberate choices; we want to live more intentionally

· Erin shared the following:

o It takes 5-7 years of relationship trouble or contemplating divorce before a woman files for divorce

o 75% of divorces are filed by women

o Women want to feel alive, we want to make deliberate choices, and we want to live more intentionally

o Women want to model positive relationships for their children

o The divorce industry is $50B/year

· Divorce is the dissolving of the most complicated financial contract we will be involved in

· Divorce does not mean failure; a lot of relationships don’t work out; people shouldn’t feel terrible and ashamed if they get divorced

· Erin talked about how the fear of the unknown is terrifying in divorce; the fear can turn into anger and a messy divorce which can be avoided through education, self-care, and goal-setting for after the divorce

· Terri asked Erin for ways in which we can better support our friends and family going through divorce

· Erin talked about how millennials love their pets and there are pre-nups, post-nups that address this in relationships

Terri’s Key Takeaway

There are healthier ways to end marriages than in years past with a shift from attorney-centered to individually centered and leveraging the services of divorce coaches, co-parenting coaches, financial planners, and other non-legal resources.

References in the Podcast

· Piloting Your Life: https://www.pilotingyourlife.com/

· Hello Divorce: https://hellodivorce.com/

· Divorceify: https://divorceify.com/home

· Breaking Free: A Modern Divorce podcast: https://www.breakingfreepod.com/

· F It, Get a Divorce: The Guide for Optimists by Steven Kane: https://www.amazon.com/F-Get-Divorce-Steve-Kane/dp/1794600795/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1572114806&sr=8-3

· October Crew Chat topic on Money: https://medium.com/@terrihansonmead/piloting-your-life-crew-chat-money-beeba0ffa570

· Sluts and Scholars: Spooky Sex with Dr. Amie Harwick: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/123-spooky-sex-with-dr-amie-harwick/id1223781930?i=1000454766632

· Finding My Yum: https://www.facebook.com/findingmyyumpodcast/

Contact

Erin can be reached by email at hello@hellodivorce.com, through LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/erinlevine/ and on Twitter @hellodivorce.

You can follow Terri on Twitter at @terrihansonmead or go to her website at www.terrihansonmead.com. Terri blogs a variety of topics on Medium at https://medium.com/terri-hanson-mead.

Terri would love to hear from you via email at PilotingYourLife@gmail.com.

Terri talks with Naama Barnea-Goraly about the tech savvy and socially minded Gen Z.

Terri talks with Erin Levine of Hello Divorce about a healthier approach to divorce.